by KCLAnderson | Oct 26, 2020 | Adult daughter, Awareness, Boundaries, Emotions, Feminism, Generational patterns, Mother Wound, Mother-daughter relationship, Re-mothering, Relationships, Self-Acceptance, Shadow, Shame
You’ve come here to work on the relationship you have with your mother. To establish healthy, mature boundaries. Inevitably, you will also work on the relationship you have with yourself. And the relationships you have with others. You will uncover painful...
by KCLAnderson | Oct 21, 2020 | Adult daughter, Awareness, Boundaries, controlling mother, Emotions, Empowerment, Feminism, forgiveness, Generational patterns, grief, Guilt, Mother Wound, Mother-daughter relationship, Re-mothering, Relationships, Self-Acceptance, The Wisdom of Others
It’s not easy to reconcile and heal your relationship with your mother if it’s been a source of suffering. It’s an ongoing process that can include the cycling of intense emotion (fear, rage, grief) and the seeming lack of emotion (numbness). It can also include...
by KCLAnderson | Oct 16, 2020 | Adult daughter, Anger, Awareness, co-dependence, Emotions, Generational patterns, Mother-daughter relationship, Relationships
I remember the day so clearly. I had marched myself down to Ocean Beach Park, a few blocks from our old house in New London, and was HURLING rocks into the water. It was a fury like no other. White! Hot! RAGE! Because my mother had asked me a question in an email. I...
by KCLAnderson | Aug 22, 2020 | Uncategorized
What will they think?” “I don’t want her to think ______.” “I’m afraid of being criticized.” Not every woman who has these fears has a difficult relationship with her mother, but women who DO seem to suffer from this...
by KCLAnderson | Aug 11, 2020 | Adult daughter, Awareness, Boundaries, Mother-daughter relationship
What decision are you grappling with right now? Maybe it’s something seemingly insignificant. Vanilla or chocolate? 😉 Or maybe it’s something that, when you think about it, feels intractable. Maybe it’s something like deciding establish a boundary...
