Advice, Essays, and other bits of wisdom
There are some shitty people in the world and some of them just happened to be mothers. Acknowledging that doesn't make you a bad person. Feeling angry about it doesn't mean you're not evolved....
MYTH: the only way to move forward, heal, and feel better about your relationship with your mother is for both of you – equally – to want to repair the relationship, for you both – equally – to...
Question from a reader: I have just finished reading your book, processing all the great things you’ve written, and deciding how to apply those things to my life. I have been married for three years...
(Listen to the podcast version) I recently read A Woman Is No Man by Etaf Rum. It's a semi-autobiographical novel about three generations of Palestinian women living in the U.S. and the (in some...
“If there was A Nobel Prize for women helping/supporting women, you’d be the recipient. I love you.” ~ C.H.
“I have benefitted so much from your work and I especially used Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters to help me reframe my relationship with my own difficult mother. In a nutshell, I have learned to give her the unconditional love she always denied me and to allow her to be whoever she is. So much wisdom in that book! I was underlining on almost every page.” ~ J.M.
“Karen, I find your blog posts so inspiring. I now have a fabulous relationship with my mum but it takes concentrated work each day to keep it being good. I am so glad I found you and your writing.” ~ S.H.
“As always, your writing hits the very thing I needed to see / hear / read, just when I need it! Even when, and especially when, people see your mother as “super human” – someone to be admired and followed – we can have different relationships with them. While I don’t comment often, know that I read everything I receive from you – and I get value from it all!” ~ D.D.
“Believe it or not your book was so helpful even though I got a hold of it only 6 months before my mother died. Your weekly Love Notes continue to be helpful and I recommend your book to anyone with a deceased mother who feels like they are still being controlled from the grave.” ~ J.Z.
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“Karen, you are awesome. I love having your emails in my inbox giving me added support with loving my elderly mum.” ~ H.S.
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