Advice, Essays, and other bits of wisdom
The term Mother Lode refers to something valuable or in great abundance. You know it when you see it. The Mother Lode: A Conversation About Emotions, Power & Creativity is a free, month-long...
I recently read Glennon Doyle's book Untamed. In the Concessions chapter she talks about watching a TV show in which a teenage girl is about to tell her parents that she's gay. The girl says, "I...
[...it's an asshole, "should is an asshole" ~ Jen Pastiloff] Forgiveness is something that comes up A LOT for adult daughters in regards to their mothers. And it usually gets one of two reactions:...
"A bad mood can feel luxurious in a society that binds our happiness to our productivity." ~ my friend Nicole Lawrence I was in such a foul mood on Saturday. I carried it with me,...
“If there was A Nobel Prize for women helping/supporting women, you’d be the recipient. I love you.” ~ C.H.
“I have benefitted so much from your work and I especially used Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters to help me reframe my relationship with my own difficult mother. In a nutshell, I have learned to give her the unconditional love she always denied me and to allow her to be whoever she is. So much wisdom in that book! I was underlining on almost every page.” ~ J.M.
“Karen, I find your blog posts so inspiring. I now have a fabulous relationship with my mum but it takes concentrated work each day to keep it being good. I am so glad I found you and your writing.” ~ S.H.
“As always, your writing hits the very thing I needed to see / hear / read, just when I need it! Even when, and especially when, people see your mother as “super human” – someone to be admired and followed – we can have different relationships with them. While I don’t comment often, know that I read everything I receive from you – and I get value from it all!” ~ D.D.
“Believe it or not your book was so helpful even though I got a hold of it only 6 months before my mother died. Your weekly Love Notes continue to be helpful and I recommend your book to anyone with a deceased mother who feels like they are still being controlled from the grave.” ~ J.Z.
“The advice you provide in your weekly Love Notes What is so skillful. powerful, loving, and boundaried. Thank you for modeling how to show up with wisdom instead of defensively. I feel a little safer in the world.” ~ L.R.
“Karen, you are awesome. I love having your emails in my inbox giving me added support with loving my elderly mum.” ~ H.S.
“I am so thankful for discovering you and you never fail to surprise me with how on point and how relatable your words and messages are.” ~ K.S.
“Thank you so much for this! This couldn’t have come at a better time. You are so intuitive!” ~ K.B.
“Thank you once again for seeing so much of the truth of who I am and who I want to be, and writing it so beautifully!” ~ B.C.
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