by KCLAnderson | Nov 30, 2020 | Anger, Awareness, Boundaries, co-dependence, controlling mother, Emotions, Generational patterns, Mother Wound, Mother-daughter relationship, Relationships
There are some shitty people in the world and some of them just happened to be mothers. Acknowledging that doesn’t make you a bad person. Feeling angry about it doesn’t mean you’re not evolved. Feeling sad about it doesn’t mean you’re...
by KCLAnderson | Nov 3, 2020 | Awareness, Boundaries, co-dependence, controlling mother, Emotions, Generational patterns, Guilt, Mother Wound, Mother-daughter relationship, Relationships, The Wisdom of Others
Question from a reader: I have just finished reading your book, processing all the great things you’ve written, and deciding how to apply those things to my life. I have been married for three years to someone my mom actually picked out for me to meet. The...
by KCLAnderson | Oct 16, 2020 | Adult daughter, Anger, Awareness, co-dependence, Emotions, Generational patterns, Mother-daughter relationship, Relationships
I remember the day so clearly. I had marched myself down to Ocean Beach Park, a few blocks from our old house in New London, and was HURLING rocks into the water. It was a fury like no other. White! Hot! RAGE! Because my mother had asked me a question in an email. I...
by KCLAnderson | Apr 8, 2020 | Adult daughter, Awareness, co-dependence, Generational patterns, Mother-daughter relationship
What you think you need: :: To figure out ways to interact with and cope with your difficult mother/daughter/sister/person. :: To figure out what to do or say when they behave a certain way. :: To figure out and fix the dysfunctional dynamics and patterns. What if all...
